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How building food components instead of starting from scratch every day changed the way I cook.

There was a point when I realized I was simply too exhausted to keep cooking from scratch every single day.

Seven days a week, every meal seemed to begin at the same place: an empty counter, ingredients that needed preparing, decisions that needed making, and another round of work before I could actually sit down and eat.

It wasn't that I didn't want to cook. I was tired of having to start from zero.

When your energy and capacity are limited, even ordinary things can become surprisingly demanding. Deciding what to make, gathering ingredients, chopping vegetables, preparing protein, cooking everything and cleaning up afterward can turn feeding yourself into a much bigger project than it needs to be.

I needed a different approach.

The discovery: prepare components, not complete meals

Somewhere along the way, I stumbled onto the idea of preparing individual food components rather than cooking complete meals in advance.

And it turns out, this is actually a thing!

Instead of making five identical containers of finished meals, you prepare useful building blocks that can be combined in different ways.

Cook some chicken. Prepare a batch of rice. Roast a tray of vegetables. Make a sauce, broth or seasoning base. Store the components separately and use them to put together different meals throughout the week.

Suddenly, you're not starting from scratch every time.

You're assembling.

Building a little food infrastructure

I started thinking about these prepared components as a kind of Prep Bank.

The idea is simple: when you have a little energy available, you can use some of it to prepare something that will make a future meal easier.

That might mean cooking extra chicken while you're already cooking dinner, preparing a container of rice, roasting vegetables, freezing portions of broth or making seasoning combinations that are ready to go.

You don't have to do everything at once. You don't even have to plan an entire week's menu.

You're simply building a collection of useful options.

Take a quick soup, for example. If the broth is ready, the chicken is cooked, the vegetables are prepared and your seasoning base is already made, putting everything together can take minutes rather than starting with an empty counter and a long list of tasks.

The same components can also become a rice bowl, a noodle dish or something entirely different.

One preparation can create several possibilities.

Less pressure. More options.

What I like most about this approach is that it doesn't require me to predict exactly what I'll want to eat three days from now.

It gives me choices.

Some days I might want soup. Other days I might want rice and chicken. Sometimes I just need something quick and uncomplicated.

Having components ready means I can work with the energy I have that day rather than having to produce the energy required to make an entire meal from scratch.

And that's an important distinction.

The goal isn't to become a more efficient meal-prepping machine. It's to make everyday life more manageable.

A different way of thinking about cooking

This has become one of the foundations of Shortcut Kitchen.

We're not trying to make cooking more complicated. We're looking for ways to remove unnecessary work, reduce decisions and make better use of the time and energy we have.

Sometimes that means cooking a complete meal. Sometimes it means preparing one useful ingredient. Sometimes it means opening the freezer and assembling something from what is already there.

All of those count.

Because feeding yourself shouldn't require you to start a new project every time you're hungry.

Stop starting from zero. Start building options.

That's the idea.

Author

Marie Bamford

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